Determined to do as many Japanese things as possible before returning to the UK, I approached one of the teachers in charge of the Tea Ceremony club (茶道部) and asked if there were any activities I could join in with. She gave a me a schedule of some classes and invited me to an Ikebana lesson! Ikebana 生け花 is Japanese flower-arranging. I have never even done European flower-arranging before, so I’ve been excited about this for a while. Nervous too, because I heard that the lady outside school who comes to teach was very strict.
So yesterday I went along to the lesson with my English-speaking colleague, who was kind enough to stay with me the whole time to translate. I learned a huge amount about flowers in that short time.
Each of us had a selection of three types of plant waiting for us. Small, yellow chrysanthemums; the leaves from a kind of lily; and the focal flower which was tall and straight, with a purple bud. The main teacher came over to me and explained the principles of flower arranging, the main one being balance. You shouldn’t have too many flowers, and they shouldn’t be too bright. They shouldn’t all be the same size, and there are rules governing how tall or short they should be.
For example, there were three of the main flower in my selection, which the teacher cut to three different sizes for me. They were placed on the base first.
The base, by the way, is a flat pin bed submerged in water. You stick the flowers onto the pins so as hold them in place.
I was told that the shortest flower on the base should be around a third of the size of the tallest flower. (Yeah, this is where I started to get lost in the forest of yet more Japanese rules and etiquette.) The chrysanthemums were duly cut to size for me. There were additional tall leaves with the bunch that had apparently come from the tall flowers. This should be cut to the height of where the stem of the tallest flower stops and the flower itself starts. (Still with me?)
The lily leaves (the flowers of which are superfluous because the leaves themselves display a simple beauty worthy of a place on the stand) should not all face the same direction. Rather, they should look in or out in different directions in the interests of balance.
Before I knew it, the main teacher had arranged all my flowers perfectly for me. She was then whisked off to help some other students, leaving my colleague and I to look at the masterpiece she had left behind.
“You can try now if you want to,” she said. “This is the teacher’s style, but if you follow the principles of Ikebana then you can find your own style.”
I voiced my concern that the teacher would be offended at my interference in the balance that she had created. My colleague insisted though, so I took away all but the tallest flowers and began rearranging them with her help.
In the meantime we talked about flower arranging traditions. I learned that there are three main holidays each year, from January to May, where she herself would arrange flowers in her home. For other times the Japanese in general might display smaller pockets of flowers around their home, in front of which they might pray for dead relatives. Interestingly she said they favoured small chrysanthemums over the big ones, as they ‘give gentler feelings.’ I liked this idea.
The teacher came over to see what we’d done and contained her dismay in a very Japanese way – by emitting a small nervous laughter. Then she began rearranging my flowers again until they resembled more closely what she had done before. Apparently the main flowers were very tall and straight, meaning we should adopt a very ‘tall and straight’ style for them.
My flowers are now on display in front of the office.. I cheekily tweaked them one last time after the teacher reorganised them. It’s mostly my work I guess but it doesn’t really matter, I enjoyed the experience anyway.
My colleague left me with a wise observation. “We Japanese often think about colour and the brightness of flowers, but Ikebana is about balance. We should spend more time thinking about the balance.”
I guess in a country where work-life balance is hard to achieve, it is all the more important to preserve the principles of practices like Ikebana.